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Stop Chasing Someone Who Doesn't Choose You
It's 11:47 p.m. You've checked your phone again. No message. You reread the conversation, wonder what you did wrong, and already know that tomorrow you'll text them anyway. If you see yourself in this, even a little, this guide is for you. A practical 56-page ebook with a quiz, worksheets and a 30-day plan, to stop wearing yourself out carrying a relationship alone.
YOU MAY BE CHASING SOMEONE IF…
It's not a lack of willpower, and it's not your fault.
You're almost always the one who texts first. Your mood for the day depends on their replies.
You move your plans around "just in case" they're free. You say "no worries" when they cancel at the last minute, even though it hurts.
You analyze every emoji, every delay, every change in tone. You give a lot, hoping that one day they'll give you as much.
You've promised yourself a hundred times you'd stop… and you start again.
If you see yourself in this, even a little…
This guide is for you.
WHAT THIS GUIDE IS NOT
This is not a book of "techniques" to win someone back, make them jealous or play hard to get. No manipulation here. This is a guide to help you stop forgetting yourself.
Whether you're a woman, a man or non-binary, in a relationship, single, dealing with an ex who comes back every now and then, or even in a friendship: the mechanism is the same, and the guide is written so that everyone can find themselves in it.
CONCRETE TOOLS, NOT JUST READING
What you'll find in the ebook (56 pages):
A 20-QUESTION QUIZ
Discover your attachment profile among four: the Anxious, the Rescuer, the Invisible and the Passionate, with their strengths, their traps and what you need.
4 PRACTICAL WORKSHEETS TO FILL IN
Behavior checklist (score out of 30), My repeating patterns (12 questions), a 30-day tracking table, and the checklist "Does this person choose me?".
30-DAY PLAN + SOS SHEET
4 weeks (Observe, Slow down, Take your place back, Build your life), one small challenge a day, and 5 immediate reflexes for the moment the urge to text becomes too strong.
21-DAY JOURNAL + 3 BONUSES
One question each evening to rebuild your self-worth, plus 3 printable bonuses: the plan summary, phrases to set your boundaries and an SOS card to keep on you.
CHAPTER BY CHAPTER
10 chapters: why you chase, the profile quiz, the signs, where it comes from, what goes on in their mind, the 30-day plan, the SOS sheet, rebuilding your self-worth, recognizing someone who truly chooses you, conclusion and bonuses.
THIS GUIDE IS FOR YOU IF…
you carry the relationship on your own; you wait for a message, a proof, a sign; you keep falling for the same kind of people; you want to understand what's happening inside you, gently, without judging yourself. Not for you if you're looking for a method to win someone back at any cost.
Frequently asked questions
Answers to the most common questions
How do I receive the ebook?
Right after your payment, you get access to the PDF download, and you also receive an email with the link. You can start reading right away. It reads on a phone, tablet or computer, and the worksheets can be printed.
What if I relapse during the plan?
It's covered. One chapter explains what to do when it happens, without starting over from zero, and the SOS sheet helps when the urge to text is strongest. The guide also works if you're still in the relationship: after that, you're the one who decides.
Can I get a refund?
Since the ebook is digital content delivered immediately after payment, it cannot be returned or refunded once downloaded. If there is a technical problem (unreadable or undelivered file), write to us at pureserenity078@gmail.com and we'll send you a solution within 48 hours.
Picture yourself three months from now.
Your phone buzzes, and your heart no longer races. You reply when you feel like it. You make plans for yourself. That person is you, once you've stopped chasing.
Questions? Write to us
pureserenity078@gmail.com. This guide is a personal development tool: it does not replace professional support. If you're going through a very difficult time or feel unsafe in your relationship, please get help from a qualified person.
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